My MOM is my BIggest HATER: Breaking Free from Toxic Mother-Daughter Relationships (My Mom is my BIGGEST HATER Collection) Paperback – April 4, 2026

What happens when the woman who was supposed to love you most becomes the voice that tears you down?In My MOM is my BIGGEST HATER: Breaking Free from Toxic Mother-Daughter Relationships, Dr. La'Tesha — Ph.D., DSW, LCSW — pulls back the curtain on one of the most painful and least talked-about wounds a woman can carry: the mother wound. With the raw honesty of a survivor and the clinical precision of a licensed therapist, Dr. La'Tesha walks you through the silent suffering that happens when your mother's criticism, jealousy, competition, or emotional unavailability leaves you questioning your worth, shrinking your dreams, and chasing love that was never freely given.This isn't just a book. It's a mirror — and a map.Drawing on her proprietary Daughter Survival Loop™, Dr. La'Tesha reveals the six-stage cycle that keeps daughters trapped — Perception, Invalidation, Self-Doubt, Overcompensation, Re-engagement, and Reinforcement — and gives you the tools to finally break free. Through 22 powerful chapters, clinical frameworks, and deeply personal storytelling, you'll learn to name what happened to you, grieve what you deserved, rebuild your identity, and step fully into the woman God created you to be.Inside, you'll find:The Daughter Survival Loop™ — understand exactly how toxic mother-daughter patterns are formed and sustainedThe Love Distortion Cycle — recognize how distorted love shaped your relationships, boundaries, and self-imageThe Jada Practice — a healing ritual designed to restore tenderness and self-compassionA Bonus Healing Resource Guide with clinical tools including the Mother Wound Assessment, Inner Child Questionnaire, Boundary Script Library, a 30-Day Forgiveness Journal, and healing affirmationsWhether your mother's hating was loud and obvious or quiet and covert, this book will help you stop internalizing her voice as truth. Healing is not about making peace with the pain — it's about breaking the loop and reclaiming your life.You were never the problem. And it's time you believed that. Read more